February 25, 2013

• open marriage? whaa? u read that xanga post?

  http://www.datingish.com/771836859/open-marriage/

  I agree with some of the commentors that if you're mature enough yeah, but i also agree with them that it can be a relationship ender. I don't know if i'd want that because i've seen examples of marriages lasting past the whole sexual thing and stuff.
  I think it's important to explore curiosities like dating people of other backgrounds and stuff like that. Like comments said, we can just shut off our attraction from others. I think it's a mature act to be able to rationalize saving the relationship over havin sone flings and stuff.
  Hopefully i can get all of these experiences i want to have out of the way so i can commit to a relationship.

  I wouldn't mind making friends with other married couples. I've seen married couples here together and it's cute how they share their time/lives with each other. I totally want something like that in the future.

  My friends in relationships give me hope that u can maintain things. One relationship I admire is Cat and Trevor. They've been together since high school and they don't like, argue or whatever! It's like so surreally awesome.

  I guess, as long as you know what the other person is all about in the beginning, it'll be easier later on. It's tough cause we all have different dreams and desires we pursue at the same time.. and that sometimes things like that change.
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